Why do husband and wife separate?
People are mostly letting go of each other because of infidelity, career jealousy, loss of jobs, domestic violence, and sometimes, fell out of love. But now that we are currently facing a great tragedy of our times, most pairs face a challenge. Probably because of financial matters; however, there are still helpful ways to strengthen each other’s faith and love.
First of all, it is significant that both parties are open to each other. Husband and wife must share everything, even the worst ones. Relationships fail because one of them is trying too hard to project himself as the perfect one, always strong and succeeding. But in fact, it is through vulnerability that makes the relationship robust. Also, laugh with your partner. Arguments and disagreement are part of the relationship, but laughing with it afterward won’t hurt. If pairs are supposed to be together during hard times, they should have each other laugh most of the time. Their happy moments should be dominant than tragic moments.
Most importantly, never find a company in times of despair. Our partners will forever have their flaws and lack, but finding someone who will fill those blanks in the relationship is extremely unforgiving. Contentment and appreciation must rise above all.
Lastly, have time to look for books that will teach you the art of living. Thoughts From A Mountain, a compilation of poems that talk about forgiveness, hope, and love, written by an Australian poet, Craig Lanyon. This book helps damaged relationships, as it teaches releasing grudges to someone you love, hoping for better communication, and strengthening love, especially when times are hard. Our current situation should never be the cause of separation because this is the best time to remain firm together. Indeed, this book is highly commendable, particularly to those facing a challenge in their relationship. In addition to that, it was written with great eloquence, and the words are just right for the emotions, which only portray the goodness of the author himself in composing this book.
Love, indeed, must reign above all, especially these challenging times. With strong communication and in-depth affection for one another, then every rocky road along the way will be solved quickly. Thoughts From A Mountain should be the first book you have in your hand first thing in the morning, so your thoughts and soul will be at ease. Indeed, this book is a must-read one, worthy of your time and focus.